i want to meet my gf's parents...

i want to meet my gf's parents but she keeps blowing me off. idk what to do. i love her and she knows that. we've been dating for 4 months. dont u think that's enough time?? help.

Did you tell her how much it means to you hun?

yea i have. idk if she's embarrassed of me or what. i asked her about it again and she still blew me off.

Let her ask you to meet her parents. That way, both of you are comfortable.

I agree with david. You should wait until she's comfortable. But maybe hint at it that it's really important for you to get to know her family... Or maybe you should bring her around your family more and make her realize that she's comfortable with them but you're not with hers yet and she needs to fix that somehow.

i dont know. i think you should tell her that you think it's time to meet them again. 3 months or whatever is a long time... if she doesnt feel comforatable with meeting your parents yet then what's wrong with the relationship?

I think I'm going to talk to her about it tonight. You're right barbie, it has been a long time. Almost half a year.

what happened? how did it go?

dude if she doesnt want to dont pressure her

Sorry for the offtopic.
My x-gf wanted me to go and meet her parents.I was a bit anxious(not used to in all these stuff),so a day i accepted.It ended very well,me and her father wasting time with computer stuff and drinking beers

deRadian wrote:Sorry for the offtopic.
My x-gf wanted me to go and meet her parents.I was a bit anxious(not used to in all these stuff),so a day i accepted.It ended very well,me and her father wasting time with computer stuff and drinking beers

hahaha yeah all you really have to do is just go for it! just suck it up! it usually ends out well.